{"id":36,"date":"2009-08-16T01:59:46","date_gmt":"2009-08-16T05:59:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/higheredcareercoach.com\/?p=36"},"modified":"2014-08-13T15:34:32","modified_gmt":"2014-08-13T15:34:32","slug":"assertive-communication","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/higheredcareercoach.com\/staging\/2913\/assertive-communication\/","title":{"rendered":"Assertive Communication"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A good question to ask yourself before you jump in to a career in higher education. . .<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Are you assertive?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You really better be. Whether you are a professor or an administrator, you will likely be faced on a pretty regular basis with situations where a student, a student&#8217;s parents, or even the majority of a class takes issue with something you have said or done, and drags you into discussions about policies, prioritites and plans. It&#8217;s important when these things come up that you hold your own in your interactions with co-workers, students and their parents.<\/p>\n<p>If you need a refresher on assertiveness, take a look at a presentation I did for Residence Life Coordinator staff this summer.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Assertive Communication\" href=\"http:\/\/prezi.com\/142448\/\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/prezi.com\/142448\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I hope that you will find it useful.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A good question to ask yourself before you jump in to a career in higher education. . . Are you assertive? You really better be. 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